What to Pack for Daycare
A well-packed bag makes daycare run smoothly. Here's everything you need to send with your child, organized by age.
Label everything! Use permanent marker, iron-on labels, or label stickers. Items get mixed up constantly at daycare. Write your child's first and last name on everything.
Infants (0-12 months)
Daily Essentials
Feeding
- Bottles (labeled with oz marks)
- Breast milk or formula (labeled with date)
- Baby food/purees (if eating solids)
- Bibs
Diapering
- Diapers (8-10 per day)
- Wipes
- Diaper cream (with medication form)
- Changing pad cover (some require)
Clothes
- 2-3 complete outfit changes
- Extra socks
- Season-appropriate layers
Comfort & Sleep
- Pacifiers (labeled, 2-3)
- Sleep sack (if used at home)
- Crib sheet (some daycares require)
Toddlers (1-3 years)
Daily Must-Haves
- Diapers or pull-ups (if not potty trained)
- Wipes
- 2-3 outfit changes
- Sippy cup or water bottle
Nap Time
- Small blanket
- Lovey or comfort item
- Cot sheet (many require)
If Potty Training
- 5-6 pairs of underwear
- 4-5 pairs of pants/shorts
- Extra socks
Outdoor Play
- Sunscreen (with form)
- Sun hat
- Closed-toe shoes for playground
Preschool (3-5 years)
Daily Bag
- Backpack (child-sized)
- Water bottle
- 1-2 outfit changes
- Folder for papers/artwork
Rest Time
- Small blanket
- Cot sheet
- Small pillow (optional)
Seasonal Items
Summer
- • Sunscreen (labeled, with form)
- • Sun hat
- • Swimsuit and towel (if pool)
- • Bug spray (with form)
- • Sunglasses (optional)
Winter
- • Warm jacket
- • Hat and mittens
- • Snow boots (in snowy areas)
- • Snow pants
- • Extra warm layers
Pro Tips
- •Keep a spare outfit at daycare—store an extra set in their cubby so you're never caught short
- •Send clothes you don't mind getting stained—art, food, and outdoor play are messy
- •Dress for easy changes—elastic waistbands, no complicated buttons for toddlers
- •Restock supplies weekly—check diapers, wipes, and extra clothes every weekend
- •Update sizes regularly—spare clothes that don't fit are useless
What NOT to Send
- • Toys from home (unless show-and-tell day)
- • Jewelry or anything valuable
- • Clothing with drawstrings (strangulation hazard)
- • Flip-flops or open-toe shoes (playground safety)
- • Food with nuts (if nut-free facility)
The Art of Labeling: Best Methods
In a room full of toddlers with similar sippy cups and identical extra outfits, labels are the only thing preventing your belongings from becoming communal property. Here are the best labeling options:
Permanent Marker
The simplest solution. Write on clothing tags, the inside of shoes, and the bottom of bottles. Works for most items but fades over time and can bleed on some fabrics. Use laundry-safe markers for best results. Always test on an inconspicuous area first.
Iron-On Labels
Durable option for clothing that survives countless washes. Available with cute designs or simple text. Takes initial setup time but pays off long-term. Brands like Mabel's Labels and Name Bubbles are popular. Apply to clothing tags or directly to fabric.
Stick-On Labels
Perfect for non-fabric items: bottles, containers, lunchboxes, shoes, and gear. Many are dishwasher and laundry safe. Great for items that change frequently. Some sets include different sizes and shapes for various uses.
Clothing Stamps
Reusable stamps with your child's name that work on fabric. Faster than writing each item individually. Ink is designed to withstand washing. Initial cost is higher but efficient for labeling many items quickly.
Organizing Your Daycare Bag System
A well-organized system prevents morning chaos and ensures you never forget essential items.
The Two-Bag Method
Keep one bag at daycare (permanent supplies: extra clothes, diapers, wipes) and one bag for daily transport (daily supplies, communication folder). This reduces what you carry each day and ensures essentials are always available at daycare.
Packing Station
Create a designated spot at home where the daycare bag lives and gets repacked each evening. Keep backup supplies nearby so you can quickly restock. A checklist on the wall helps ensure nothing is forgotten.
Weekend Prep Routine
Every Sunday, check the daycare supply stash. Count diapers, check that spare clothes still fit, wash water bottles and lunchboxes, and ensure you have enough wipes for the week. Prevents Monday morning surprises.
Special Situations Packing
Potty Training Phase
This demanding phase requires extra supplies. Pack more than you think you need:
- • 5-6 pairs of underwear (accidents happen)
- • 4-5 complete bottom outfits (pants, shorts)
- • 3-4 pairs of socks
- • Plastic bag for wet clothes
- • Pull-ups for nap time (if needed)
Children with Allergies
Food allergies require extra documentation and supplies:
- • Allergy action plan signed by doctor
- • Emergency medications (EpiPen, antihistamines)
- • Safe snacks for birthday parties and special events
- • Clear labeling on all food items
- • List of safe and unsafe foods for new staff
Special Dietary Needs
Whether vegetarian, kosher, halal, or other dietary requirements:
- • Written dietary guidelines for center
- • Alternative snacks when center's menu doesn't work
- • Pre-portioned meals if center doesn't accommodate
- • Regular communication with kitchen staff
Field Trip Days
Many daycares take occasional field trips. Be prepared with:
- • Signed permission slip
- • Sunscreen and hat
- • Extra water bottle
- • Comfortable walking shoes
- • Weather-appropriate layers
- • Any required car seat
Clothing Selection Strategies
Smart clothing choices make life easier for everyone—your child, the teachers, and you.
Do Send
- • Elastic waistbands (easy for potty)
- • Velcro shoes (independent dressing)
- • Layers (adjustable for temperature)
- • Play clothes you won't miss
- • Machine washable everything
- • Dark colors (hide stains better)
Avoid Sending
- • Buttons, snaps, complicated closures
- • White or light-colored clothes
- • Overalls (bathroom emergencies)
- • Dresses for playground days
- • Expensive or sentimental items
- • Anything with drawstrings
The Lost Item Reality
Items will go missing. It's not a matter of if, but when and how often. Here's how to cope:
Frequently Asked Questions
How many diapers should I send daily?
For infants, plan on 8-10 diapers per full day. Toddlers in diapers typically need 6-8. Most daycares prefer you maintain a supply (usually a pack or more) that they draw from, rather than counting exactly each day. Check weekly to see if supplies need restocking.
Can I send homemade baby food?
Policies vary. Many centers accept homemade food if it's clearly labeled with contents, child's name, and date. Some require only commercially prepared foods for food safety reasons. Ask your center's policy. If allowed, freeze individual portions and send them frozen to stay fresh.
What if my child needs sunscreen applied?
Most states require a signed medication form for sunscreen since it's considered a topical medication. Complete the form at enrollment and provide a labeled bottle of sunscreen. Some centers apply before outdoor time; others have parents apply in the morning. Ask about their specific policy.
Should I send a comfort item like a blanket or stuffed animal?
For toddlers and older infants, a comfort item can help with separation and nap time. Most centers allow one small lovey or blanket. Avoid large items or items with detachable parts. Have a duplicate at home in case the daycare one gets lost—a dirty backup is better than no backup.
How often should I replace spare clothes?
Check sizes monthly for babies and toddlers who grow quickly. Seasonally swap out warm and cold weather items. When spare clothes come home dirty, replace them the next day. Some parents keep a reminder on their phone to check spare clothes monthly.
Can I send breast milk? How should it be stored?
Daycares should accept breast milk with proper labeling. Label each bottle with child's name, date expressed, and amount. Send in an insulated cooler bag with ice packs. The center should refrigerate immediately and use within 24 hours of thawing. Ask about their warming method—warm water bath is preferred over microwaving.
What if my center provides diapers and wipes?
Some centers include diapers in tuition or offer them as an add-on. This is convenient but may limit your brand choice. If your child has sensitive skin, ask if you can supply your own brand. Compare costs—center-provided diapers may be cheaper or more expensive than supplying your own.
Do I need to send a crib sheet?
For infants, many centers require parents to provide fitted crib sheets (usually 2 so one can be washed). For toddlers on cots, you may need a cot sheet or fitted sheet. Check with your center—some provide bedding, others don't. Bedding typically goes home weekly for washing.
What's the best type of bag to use?
For infants and toddlers, a diaper bag with compartments works well. For preschoolers, a child-sized backpack they can carry themselves promotes independence. Choose something durable and washable. Avoid bags with too many small compartments where items get lost.
Should I pack snacks for my preschooler?
Most centers provide snacks, but check their menu and allergy policies. If your child has allergies or dietary restrictions, you may need to send alternatives. Some parents send supplemental snacks for long days. Always follow the center's policies about nut-free and food sharing.
The Bottom Line
Packing for daycare doesn't have to be overwhelming once you establish a system. Key principles to remember:
- •Label everything with first AND last name
- •Pack more than you think you'll need, especially during transitions
- •Choose practical over precious—items will get lost and stained
- •Create a weekly restock routine to prevent morning scrambles
- •Adjust packing as your child grows and seasons change
Your daycare will provide specific requirements at enrollment—use that list alongside this guide to create a packing system that works for your family. Within a few weeks, it becomes routine, and you'll pack that daycare bag without even thinking about it.